This was written in a way it should apply to any gender. It uses “Top” to refer to the Dominant party, be them male or female.
1) I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires,
limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only
prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible,
but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
2) I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will not push to make a
scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not TOP
from the BOTTOM.
3) I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not
comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as
a submissive and as a human being.
4)I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my
Top, and will do my best to fulfill their wishes and desires.
I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that
submissive does Not equal doormat.
5)I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will
share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they
will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time
to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
6)I will be responsive to my Top. I will not try to hide what my mind
and body are feeling so that I may assist them in their
responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not
telepathic, and will not expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings
which I do not share.
7)I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone
bad. I will not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted
simply because they are the Dominant. I realize that things may not
work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it
behind me and move on.
8)I will give my gift of submission only to those that can
responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in
the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my
respect to someone that has not earned it.
9)I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with what they are
requesting. I realize they have my best interests at heart and often
knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.
10)I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will do my best to
help others see them in a positive way. I will not intentionally
embarrass or displease my Dominant.Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will
never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or
sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show
myself in a negative way.